Killer Statement

There is a negative in terms of communication and longest-called killer statement. What is the killer statement? She, the statement is the killer of all forms of the statement that we, we, knowingly or not, but the hurt and able to damage the mental spirit and others.

Type-isakather type of statement is, without conscious we hear every day, or perhaps without conscious intention, we joke with, motivate, but in fact damage. Now, the words destroyer soul that generate negative feelings on someone that we often a killer statement.

Interestingly, the history of comics world record was also due to bad from the killer who had received the statement by the two children named Jerry Siegel and Joe Shuster. Story like this. In the depression that the United States in 1933, Jeery Siegel have created the idea of a hero of children who have extraordinary abilities.

Energy stronger than iron, can fly and originally from another planet. So, together with his colleagues, namely Joe Shuster in the paint, were created for the first time picture of the man of steel. But the picture is super-human comic is not so interesting. Critique and criticism received.

During six years in succession komiknya denied any spots. Until the end, the peak mental disintegration of Siegel and Shuster happens when they hear from some editors who need DeTecTiVe Comics comic strips.Lantas they try to sell them.

But, when the open-open and view their comics illustration, the editors also laughed and said, "Wow, I believe there will be a comic with ideas such as this. And bit and behavior may not be sold." Maka, karena sudah terlalu frustrasi dengan penolakan dan kalimat yang menghancurkan itu, Shuster dan Siegel akhirnya sepakat menjual komik serta segala hak ciptanya kepada Detective Comics hanya senilai US$130.

Note well, at only U.S. $ 130! But, the biggest mistake that Siegel and Shuster due to the killer to listen to the receipt of the statement. Because, some time after komiknya purchased, the characters appeared to be komiknya worship. You can guess. That figure Superman, with the ability of human Krypton flying, super vision and physical strength that extraordinary.

Superman comics to become so in demand, until aired, the character of a children's idol. Meanwhile, Siegel and Shuster, the resultant first, can only nibble finger. Superman figures to be popular and profitable meraup billions of U.S. dollars. The resultant figure to get only U.S. $ 130, even living in poverty and debt.

Fortunately, in 1975 after repeatedly pressure from the public
Comics DeTecTiVe that is not humane to leave
Superman creators living in the poor, eventually DeTecTiVe Comics agreed to provide financial guarantees. However, if we look back, it is the price of a killer statement, which have destroyed the careers and lives of two toddlers called Shuster and Siegel.

Readers, this story seems to make us aware of the danger of a killer statement in our interpersonal relationships. Indeed, sometimes the statement this killer does not spoken with the intention that the negative, but its impact, damaging indeed! However, the killer can also uttered this statement with the intention to impose a special mentality of people who heard them.

Tips important

For that, there are some important tips for us. First, be careful with the killer statement that we may well say to our children, our life partner, colleagues and subordinates us. Killer statement indicates that this sentence is spoken without consideration, can kill potential, ability and good character person.

Therefore, if you are stressful, are not in the mood to talk conditions, do not feel satisfied with the results, or do not feel like what you see, try to avoid using words that smack destroy or disapprovingly.

Second, as our own people and that will receive the usual killer statement from the people around us, we better prepare anti-virus for our own. Anti-virus contains other words that we speak to ourselves, although others have said the killer statement to us.

In the workshop, and longest, which we do, one of the training that we provide is to use positive reinforcement that phrase quickly neutralize although other people have said bad things to you.

Interestingly, also in the event one of the singing contest, there is a singer kodang who are old, but invited guests to a jury. When there is a singer who received poor ratings and eventually tersingkir. While before the timer, the old singer is to give advice, "Do not care about the results of this assessment buatmu. What's important is the continued kuatkanlah yourself. I'm never had singing contest, yet with persistence, I can become a singer. Contributing to practice and proved yourself can be successful ". Wow, my eyes glisten hear the motivation of the artist and star of this old singer.

Truly a word of strengthening the extraordinary. Andapun must say the same thing to yourself, when you are given the words killer or a negative statement. Remember readers, not to your ability and potential and was damaged by the words of the people who are not responsible. They actually have a problem with them.
Do not let them destroy you.
Do not let them steal your dreams.

Source: Killer Statement by Anthony Martin Dio